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I've been writing this post in my head all day, and now the time comes, I still don't know how to start! So I might as well just get to it. I have a story, and a picture to go with it (multiple pictures, actually, but just one for now), and a request: before you read the cut, take a look at this picture from today.. Trust me, it's more interesting this way. :)

Did you look at the picture?
Did you?

Good! Now for the explanation!

So yesterday, I was walking through Asakusa, and my hairwas in the way, and I flipped it out with a disgusted sniff, and thought to myself how nice it would to just not have it any more. It was annoying to wash, took forever to dry, and looked crappy once it was dry. My ends were a mess, and I never liked wearing it down any more - even though I often did. Whenever I got ready to take a walk I would concoct new and more intricate ways to keep it off my neck. In short, it was making me crazy, and I could no longer think of any good reason why I had it. It was making me nuts. And as I had this disgusted, frustrated thought, I had another: wait, what was keeping me from just cutting it?? Nothing! That's what. Absolutely NOTHING. The only reason I didn't cut it back in February was because I wanted to keep it long for fantasy LARPs. You know what I'm not doing any of any more??

So I spent a couple hours on the phone with my mom, and we looked at scads of pictures, and we picked a few likely styles, and I decided to do it.

It's amazing how frightening this decision was. I barely slept last night, and that was at least a part of it. It wasn't that I didn't want to - I really, really did want to - it was just, what if it went wrong? What if it looked awful? What if I hated it? This was WAY scarier than coming to Japan - if I hated Japan, I could catch a plane home the very next day. But if I hated my new hair cut, I was just flat stuck! It'd take literally years for it to get that long again!!

Still, I'd made up my mind, and I was so frickin' sick of my hair, that when I gave up on getting any sleep at 8 AM, I got ready, and headed out to the salon I'd found in one of my books.

Yuko, my new hairdresser, is very nice, and I plan to go to her again. Her English is passable, and her advice was very good. She recommended to me enough product to do what needs to be done, but not so much that I thought I was being taken advantage of. She made sure I was absolutely certain about 4 times before cutting it off, and told me that while they don't do Locks of Love in Japan, I can get in touch with them and set it up. I haven't measured it, but the braid looks to be about 50 cm long, and I will be sending it in to charity if I possibly can.

We picked out a look from a book, and she said I shouldn't go TOO short yet, but if I wanted to shorter in the future that could be done. She also suggested highlights at some point, and I'm thinking I might as well. With short hair, I can finally play around - with long hair, if you play around you're stuck for ever and ever, but short hair just grows right back out. I'm planning on grabbing some colored hair gels to spike it with, to, the wash out stuff - I think it'll be fun. :)

So yeah. Today I did something that scared the piss out of me, and it turned out great. I love my new hair cut!

More Photographs:
Before, Front
Before, back, Right after a shower
The First Photo, which sucks. :)
After, Front
After, Side
So, uh, what do ya'll think? Did I do good?

Date: 2007-09-25 11:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sapphohestia.livejournal.com
My first thought, honestly, was "OMG! But why is the hair gone?" but my second thought was "Cute!"

It's a cute cut but also modern and a bit edgy. It makes you look older (in a good way, not grandma old!) and very put-together. Good stuff!

Date: 2007-09-25 11:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
Thanks! The hair dresser thought it made me look younger, but I'm kind of with you. She was funny, she was clearly very pleased with her hand work, and thought I was looking oh-so-cute. :)

I'm really glad you like it. You're my first validation - other, that is, from Yuko being chipper about it. :)

Date: 2007-09-25 11:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] danielmc.livejournal.com
wow.
well done.
i think it looks fantastic!!!

Date: 2007-09-25 11:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
Thanks! :) Yay!

Date: 2007-09-25 11:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drydem.livejournal.com
I think it's nice.

Date: 2007-09-26 05:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
I'm glad to hear that! :)

Date: 2007-09-25 12:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kniedzw.livejournal.com
Whoa.

...

Looks nice. :)

Date: 2007-09-26 05:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
Hmm...I guess "Whoa" is about the reaction I was going for, yeah. ;)

Date: 2007-09-25 12:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] moonartemis76.livejournal.com
go you for being a brave girl!!

I usually am a longer hair fan but that looks great!! I love it. You look like a chic world traveling modern woman.

Awesome

Date: 2007-09-26 05:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
It's such a relief to see that people dig it! The shortest my hair has ever been before is shoulder length (I cut it to shoulder length for several years when I was in elementary school, then once when I was in middle school, once in high school, and once my freshman year of college) but I've always wondered how I'd look with it REALLY short. :) I can get behind chic, though, chic is good. ;)

Date: 2007-09-25 01:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] swan-tower.livejournal.com
I don't think it's weird at all that you found that terrifying. I know how jarring it was for me to cut off enough to donate, the one time I did it, and I still had very long hair after that was done.

But it sounds like you were ready for the change. Good decision, and have fun playing with it!

Date: 2007-09-26 05:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
Now that it's done, I'm not terribly upset...mostly. There was a moment last night where I was like, OMG my hair is all gone, why oh why did I do this? But other than that, it's mostly been, wow my head feels so light now, wheeeeee. I think I probably made the right choice. :)

And oooh, I'm SO looking forward to playing with it!! :) It's like having a brand new toy...

Date: 2007-09-25 01:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] skygawker.livejournal.com
Yeah, it looks great! I did a similar thing before coming to Japan the last time -- my hair was never quite as long as yours, but it was almost there; and then I didn't get it cut as short as you did, but it was still about 10 inches off, so I was freaking out too, and sent it to Locks of Love. I think yours turned out even better than mine did! It suits you very well! The word "sharp" comes to mind. :)

Oh, and now that you've posted all these pictures of yourself, I will be able to find you if/when we get to meet up. I gotta talk to my other friend about when I'm coming out to Kanto....

Date: 2007-09-26 05:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
I was reluctant to cut it really short, at first, but, well, if I always stopped part way there - I know I look cute with shoulder length hair - I'd never find out if I looked okay with it REALLY short...it'll always grow back again, slowly, if I want it to. I've seen your hair in the pictures you've posted, I think it's way cute!

And yeah, definitely let me know when you head over to Kanto!! Or I could head out your way, I guess. :) Or something...but I definitely think we should hang out!

Date: 2007-09-27 01:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] skygawker.livejournal.com
Hey, thank you! I tend to think of it as nothing special, so thank you for saying at all otherwise.

I am going to contact my friend in Yokohama and see when a visit might work with her; I'll let you know what she says. And of course let me know if you're going to be in Kyoto or Osaka or the vicinity. :)

Date: 2007-09-25 01:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] akashiver.livejournal.com
Woooo! I think it looks awesome.

Date: 2007-09-26 05:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
Wooo! :)
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Date: 2007-09-26 05:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
Your success was an undeniable inspiration to me. My cut ended up kind of reminding me of yours, too. Yay short hair cuts. :)

damn!

Date: 2007-09-25 02:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mistress-sin.livejournal.com
i will admit, when i saw the picture my jaw dropped and the first words out of my mouth were "OMG! She cut it uber short." The shortest hair i've seen you with is shoulder. you look sexy as all hell with that haircut. rawr! =)

Re: damn!

Date: 2007-09-26 05:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
You're one of the only people I know right now who can remember me with shorter hair. ;) You've seen it about as short as it's ever been, though you saw it plus a few months, if I recall - I cut it way short RIGHT after I got together with [livejournal.com profile] deadmanwade and then didn't really cut it short again the entire rest of the time I was in college, unless you count the time I cut off the remaining 6 inches of the once-blue-now-faded-to-weird-green ponytail - remember that? :)

Date: 2007-09-25 02:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] d-c-m.livejournal.com
YES!!! You look fantastic!! Very sexy and fun. Go you!!!

Date: 2007-09-26 05:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
Thanks! And I like Blade's approval, too. :)

Date: 2007-09-26 01:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] d-c-m.livejournal.com
He agrees - you be HAWT!

Date: 2007-09-25 04:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nekomata.livejournal.com
Looks good! I think it's way more flattering than the long hair.

Date: 2007-09-26 05:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
Thanks! Me too! :)

Date: 2007-09-25 05:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bakanekotoo.livejournal.com
OMG you look so cute! You make me want to cut my hair now ;_;

Date: 2007-09-26 05:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
Go for it! It's great for a new you! Wow, I just realized, weren't you with me the last time I cut it short?? I could swear it was you and Eugenia who went to the mall with me...oh, memories...

Date: 2007-09-26 04:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bakanekotoo.livejournal.com
I dunno.. I've seen pics of me with short hair and it was not very cute :-P And yes, I was there with you and Eugenia when you got your hair cut short, but it wasn't as short as what you have now. It was more chin length. I have pics of you with that haircut as well, hugging Whitney :-P

Haircut

Date: 2007-09-25 05:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] njbanjo.livejournal.com
That is you, right? Hey, I can send you some of my hair if you ever change your mind

Re: Haircut

Date: 2007-09-26 05:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
Oh yes, that is me. But I don't think I need additional hair sent at this point. ;) I guess we'll see, though. It is VERY short - mom asked how long the longest bits were, and from I can tell they are 3 to 4 inches long. Wow! :)

Date: 2007-09-25 10:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ultimabaka.livejournal.com
You look like a 15 year old boy :)

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*duck*

...

I'm just fuckin witcha...you look hot as hell ;). I gotta post a pic of how I look with my new *accidental* haircut. I don't look half as good now, even though almost 100 people have complimented me on it since it happened $. Remind me to show you a pic $
-- Gerardo

Date: 2007-09-26 05:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com
Ya know, after you said that, I was shopping earlier today and there was a boy about 15 years old with pretty much the same haircut as me, a tourist. I almost broke out laughing, but stopped myself at the last minute cause it would have been rude. :)

I'm glad you like it, though. I won't throw anything at you.

And yes, definitely post a pic! Take one now, before it grows out any more! :)
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