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unforth ([personal profile] unforth) wrote2007-09-26 09:17 pm

Very Sad News

One of my favorite cousins died last night. She had lung cancer. She was elderly, but she was always hardy and full of life. She was amazingly modern for a woman her age; I didn't know Belle that well but I could always count on her to be supportive and cheerful and encouraging, and strong. She was, to me, a quintessential "woman." She is a person I've aspired to be like since I met her - I want to be like that when I'm an old woman, full of joy and love and independence. A gift she gave me for graduation is one of the small number of things I actually brought with me to Japan. I can't believe I won't see ever see her at family events ever again. I'll miss her a lot. I'm just kind of shocked right now; she was always the sort who seemed like she would live forever, like nothing could keep her down.

[identity profile] kendokamel.livejournal.com 2007-09-26 12:56 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs*

I'm sorry for your loss. She sounds like she was a wonderful person.

[identity profile] d-c-m.livejournal.com 2007-09-26 01:17 pm (UTC)(link)
*big hug* I'm sorry for your loss dear.

[identity profile] skygawker.livejournal.com 2007-09-26 02:04 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry for your loss, too. She sounds like the sort of person we all hope we will be.

[identity profile] kniedzw.livejournal.com 2007-09-26 02:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry, Claire. That sucks.

[identity profile] bakanekotoo.livejournal.com 2007-09-26 04:54 pm (UTC)(link)
::hugs:: I'm sorry for your loss :-(

[identity profile] mindstalk.livejournal.com 2007-09-26 06:46 pm (UTC)(link)
My sympathies. It's a sad thing to hear.

[identity profile] moonartemis76.livejournal.com 2007-09-26 07:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Take care. It's never easy to lose someone when you are far away. My thoughts are with you.

[identity profile] buzzermccain.livejournal.com 2007-09-26 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
My condolences- it's always a little weird to have folks die while you are abroad- the same thing happened to me a few years ago while I was in England. It makes it feel more surreal, somehow.

Hope things are going well, otherwise!

-K

[identity profile] sapphohestia.livejournal.com 2007-09-27 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
I'm very sorry. *hugs*