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unforth ([personal profile] unforth) wrote2006-04-18 02:46 pm

Well...

Well, reading through LJ, I see that [livejournal.com profile] deadmanwade has pretty much covered the things that I might have said, accurately and fairly. For those who don't read both journals, I broke up with him yesterday, and since then we've spoken a lot and have decided to basically go for a "temporary separation." I'll move out of Knightridge and go...somewhere...and we'll tackle things from the perspectives we've gained by talking through this mess, and see if things can't be fixed. Things are still messy, but I, too, am hopeful that our current plans will work out. We both have things we are going to try to do to help to repair the problems that prompted this decision on my part, and then we'll just take it from there and see how things go. If it was worth putting 5 years into, it's worth working to fix.

I'm currently staying at [livejournal.com profile] buzzermccain's house, but I need to find a place to live myself on a fairly immediate level, since I won't feel comfortable until I have a place to call "home." I'll probably start looking tomorrow, but I need to get a handle on my school work, which is way tough with all the stuff going on in my head right now.

Life, inevitably, has a way of going on.

[identity profile] xaniquen.livejournal.com 2006-04-18 09:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad you and jay talked about it, and it seems like the wise and proper way to handle the situation. This seems a lot better than unilateral action. I hope you both come to the best decision in time, whatever that might be, and if you need anything, just let me know.

On the plus side, this lets me become even MORE of a hermit. Bwa ha ha.

[identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com 2006-04-19 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
You are not permitted to use us as an excuse to be more of a hermit! Bad [livejournal.com profile] xaniquen! Bad!

[identity profile] mistress-sin.livejournal.com 2006-04-19 12:40 pm (UTC)(link)
i will drag you kicking and screaming from under that rock that you would call home!!!

[identity profile] unforth.livejournal.com 2006-04-19 01:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, make him scream! er...I mean...uh...make him leave the house! Yeah!

[identity profile] xaniquen.livejournal.com 2006-04-19 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay pot, I concede that I am indeed black.